a little g i r l talk.

soooo i'm sitting on my bed, enjoying my break & i was thinking i'd give some food for thought thas been on my mind for the last couple of days. . . .

at first i thought i'd keep it to myself at first, but i saw this pic on facebook that made me want to share my thoughts.

this food for thought is for a lot of girls i know, a lot i don't, & even me. raise your hand if you've ever put your all into a boy who in turn ended up giving you nothing but your heart back in more than a few pieces. . . .

raise your hand if you mutually ended a relationship with a boy who in turn made it his purpose to make it seem as if you were the worst, worrisome, needy person. . . .

or raise your hand if you simply went/dated/messed with a young man who you gave the benefit of the doubt & in actuality truly didn't deserve you for your million dollar worth. . . .

now while it's natural to be angry, sad, hurt, lonely, & every other feeling that comes along with it, i just would like to encourage you : though it is easier said than done, DON'T STRESS IT ! ! !

clearly easier said than done, but while we are stuck going crazy. . .what is he doing ? there are a million different reasons but of 5o% of the time he is NOT going crazy with you. . . . .

so why should you ? ? ? what i am trying to say is that if a young man cannot recognize your worth. . .you recognize it !

you can do that on your own. you don't need anyone to validate that. "we never recognize the worth of water until the well runs dry." sometimes we need to let the well run dry.

if he can recognize it great, if he doesn't that is his loss NOT yours. it hurts but there is someone who will. if it is not a dude in your life then i pray you can be strong enough that YOU recognize it. most [ l o l ] are too fly for the stress anyway. . . .

while i'm not an expert at l o v e i've been through my share of unusual & if i do say so myself rather grown-up situations. life will go on with or with out him. trust me.

well enough with that. just thought i'd give a little girl power talk ! sheesh. i'll leave you with a quote from rihanna's fire bomb.

" you could've been apart of a masterpeice. . ."

okay, that is all. back to the thug, world ruling robin. ;D.

until next time. . . . . .